Some may call me a chauvinist because I possess very channeled views regarding the roles of man and woman. I believe that every man should be able to fund the relationship he’s in. Having enough money to fund the relationship is an admirable quality.
Anything that woman contributes if she so chooses is a plus but never a necessity. A struggling man signifies a man out of alignment with self. A man who struggles is a man who has lost his way. One of the first goals of man should be to get the money thing handled a quickly as possible. A struggling man is a weak man. His money muscles are flaccid. A struggling man makes poor decisions because he cannot possibly think very clear with lint instead of money in his pockets.
A struggling man is one who is losing the inner battle with self. A struggling man is one who walks through life awkwardly because the lack of money leaves him unfocused and bewildered. Man was not meant to struggle and anyone who buys into struggling as a way of life has totally misinterpreted their Godliness.
Women are to be adorned, treasured and pampered. It should be clear to a woman that when you date her that she will never have to go inside her purse unless its for something to powder her face. It should be known that you consider it an insult if she offers to pay for the meal or a bill.
I think we have gotten away from this and it has made for a weak man. I’m speaking man to man here and every man should man up. The number one thing that ends most relationships is not infidelity but the lack of money. I’m talking money problems baby. Does money answer all things? No! However this is still no reason to walk around broke and struggling.
When do you plan on getting the money thing handled? Have you made it a lifelong journey to struggle? Do you really believe this is why you were put here on earth? How long will continue to say to your kids “we can’t afford it or that’s too expensive?”
I know most of you will not heed this warning. In fact, many of you are angry right now that I would utter such things. I know how it feels because I’m struggling too. I’m sorely disappointed in myself that I have not been a better steward of money. I’m disappointed because in me because I have not let money know who’s the master. I’m changing my ways though because I can’t bare to let this monster control me any longer. I owe it to myself and all the lives I touch to get my money right. On a much larger scale I owe it God.
That’s my spin on it.
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