Women don’t want what most of us think that they want. I tend to think that women process a sexual experience the same way that I do. I tend to process it like this..see woman, get turned on by woman and jump into bed with woman. This is absolutely a backwards approach to romancing a woman. For the rare time that this just might work its certainly not worth the risk. Women no matter how tuned in and turned on are not interested in immediately jumping into bed with me or you.
One of the qualities that any man should learn to master if they ever plan on having any success with top quality women is the art of patience. You’re going to have to find a way to tame your loins. Despite the fact that you think your the best thing since baked bread was discovered women are not interested in jumping into bed with you or me immediately.
They’ve been giving us clues for years but I don’t think we’ve been listening. Have you ever heard a woman say something like “Would you think less of me if I slept with you on the first night?” They know that’s what you want but deep within that’s not necessarily what they desire. (at least not right away)
Here are the things that women are seeking in no particular order:
- Romance
- Sensory Stimulation
- Subtly
- Anticipation
- Foreplay
- Oral (everything)
Romance – a woman wants to be courted. A woman wants to be wooed off her feet. A woman wants to be wined and dined. A woman wants a chivalrous man.
Sensory Stimulation – a woman wants you make her five senses come live. She wants to be touched gently. She wants to smell to her fragrant body and tell her how great she smells. She wants you to taste her lips, her ears, her back, her feet and every crevice and crack that she possesses. A woman want you to actually listen to her as she talks and to relish every moment that she moans. A woman wants you to see beyond the exterior of her body and gaze into her soul.
Subtly – A woman is seeking a man who mentally acute. She enjoys a man who is clever but sincere. She is enamored by a man who is mysterious but connected. A woman wants to know that she’s being catered to but she likes it to appear effortless for you.
Anticipation – A woman to expect that she is going to encounter great things but not necessarily know what those things are. A woman want you to hold a little bit back and not give it all to her at once. A woman wants a slight hint in advance.
Foreplay – foreplay is to sex as a trailer is to a good and entertaining movie. A woman wants to be ramped up. A woman wants to sample so she can anticipate what is to come.
Oral – a woman want you to speak to her orally in the deepest tone you can muster. A woman wants to feel your tongue, lips and mouth after your done speaking. A woman wants you to cover the entire circumference of her body with your mouth both physically and metaphorically.
That’s my spin on it.
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